You're not one for subtle, but want to avoid taking attention away from the bride. This is a great way to compromise. A classic fit and flare style that shimmers with sequins, embellishment and hints of skin without being so loud as to seem like you're shouting. The midi length also tames it in a modern way. Sizes XS to XL. Buy from Nordstrom.

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We love this evolution of the flutter sleeve into two panels on the one dramatic shoulder. Body skimming silhouette; tasteful length—perfect for day, or cocktail. Comes in several vibrant colors, but we're partial to pink. Sizes XXS to XXL (which is 00 to 16). Buy from Nordstrom. 

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We're obsessed with these lip shimmers—in three festive shades. Add the Lip Oil Glimmer for extra shine. Great for a gift bag or little thank you—to others, or yourself! Buy from e.l.f. cosmetics.

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 A flirty, fun way to do the navy thing. The flattering cut will make you feel like you're floating—which you should be. Tasteful and modern, the high-low hemline is always a nice option for shorter women. Sizes 2-18. Buy from Nordstrom.

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A silhouette designed to flatter your curves, from its pleating at the waist to the cascade of ruffles and side slit. And can we just say, in a season of one shoulder gowns, it's refreshing to be able to wear your regular bra with a special occasion dress! See it on real mom Sue. Sizes 0 to 18. Buy from Nordstrom.

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A timeless favorite that looks good on many body types, thanks to its easy-to-wear sleeveless bateau neck and strategic waist pleating, with the cascading ruffle to give it an extra spark. Comes in several colors. Sizes 0 to 12. Buy from Nordstrom.

Also consider a similar style by Betsy & Adam with slightly heavier (higher quality) material.

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The stretchy scuba-like material reminds us of a (more expensive) Chiara Boni La Petite Robe dress—it holds everything in place. We love the bare shoulder, ruffle sleeve combo. See it on mother of the groom Julie. Sizes 2 to 14. Buy from Macy's. 

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Now it's a party! We love this sequined spin on the wrap style that is friendly to most body types. The v-neck with the wrap makes it a smart choice for those with larger breasts. The slit adds a sexy kick, and sparkling is exactly what you should be on a wedding day. Sizes 0 to 18. Buy from Bloomingdale's.

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Elegant and delicate. This all-over lace two-tone gown features beautiful details, from the scallop edging to the sheer back and trumpet skirt. Sizes 0 to 18. Buy from Bloomingdale's.

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Whether the ceremony takes place at home, at the court house, or the couple's favorite watering hole, you want to feel special, and this knee-skimming dress is equal parts chic and understated. For a fantastic price, no less! We love the sheer shoulder and ruffle cap sleeve. Sizes 0 to 18. Buy from Bloomingdale's. 

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Long isn't the only option. We love the versatility of this strapless cocktail dress, from its asymmetrical neckline and hemline to the ruffle at the waist, it's got an architectural sensibility that could fit in at a fancy evening affair, or an afternoon wedding by the sea. (See it on Susan.) Comes in several other colors, including dusty rose, pale blue and black. Sizes XS to XL. Buy from Revolve.

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A mock wrap style with pleating in all the right places and puff sleeves exudes relaxed chic and yet looks totally pulled together. It's a dress you're sure to reach for again and again. Sizes 14 to 28. Buy from Macy's.

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