Brown shouldn't be boring, We love this modern A-line silhouette with the cascading ruffle and deep V-neck (if it's too deep, you could always have it pulled in a smidge). The ombre treatment gives this gown an edge. Sizes 0-14. Buy from Dillard's.

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Glam goddess vibes. Often satin is so thin, it shows every imperfection, but this material has a bit of thickness to it that helps it to drape beautifully and really shine. We love the emerald green, but it's pretty in vibrant pink as well. Sizes 0 to 16. Buy from Mac Duggal.

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Sleeveless with a plunge is a winning combo. We're crazy about the luxe velvet fabric–soft, wrinkle-free, and adds some dimension without bulk. The midsection crisscross is so flattering on this leena for Mac Duggal dress. Sizes 0 to 16. Buy from Mac Duggal. 

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When you can't decide between a full-blown ball gown and something sleeker, this is a terrific option. The tulle overlay gives it some volume without going too far. The sheer fabric and three dimensional flowers make it especially memorable. Sizes 0 to 22. Buy from Teri Jon. 

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Queen! Classic A-line ball gown with all the right accents to make you feel modern and all around fabulous from the shoulder ruffle to the defined waist, thigh high slit and that metallic brocade fabric. Sizes 0 to 20. Buy from Mac Duggal.

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A new twist on one shoulder. The asymmetrical ruffled neckline is so chic; the ruching and figure sculpting silhouette (with slit) is so sophisticated; and the modern jacquard steps it up to truly special occasion. Would be great with a metallic or even a bright color heel. Sizes 0 to 22. Buy from Teri Jon. 

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Tasteful and sexy can indeed go hand in hand as Mac Duggal proves with this sleek one shoulder column dress, ruched in all the right places, with head-to-toe sequins to give it a sparkle that feels modern and not over the top. Comes in several vibrant colors in addition to gorgeous green. Sizes 0 to 16. Buy from Mac Duggal.

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This luxe green halter style will take you from fall straight into holiday. It's a great combination of fit and A-line flare pleats to add dimension and movement. (Note the peekaboo back!) Sizes 0 to 16. Buy from Bloomingdale's.

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Nothing makes you feel more like the (mama) belle of the ball than an A-line strapless gown. But we love that classic silhouette as the canvas for this pretty and unexpected brocade in olive and pink—sure to complement many a bridal party. Pro tip: have the top brought in tight to hold everything in place and you won't spend the day hiking it up. Sizes 2-16. Buy from Saks Fifth Avenue. 

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This dress is a bit like your tried and true shapewear—it works! And makes everything better. We've seen it on several body types and always marvel at its ability to enhance, slim, and make everyone feel fab. It's the stretchy material, the trumpet silhouette, the sleeves and tease of a bare shoulder. Comes in several colors. We're fans of the wait-that's-not-black! "pine." Sizes 2 to 16. (Also comes in Plus sizes.) Buy from Nordstrom. 

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Have you considered separates? This is the A-line ballgown skirt you've been waiting for, with a banded waist to give you definition, pleating that makes it fall so beautifully, and pockets! Soft, yet structured. Formal, yet you could put it on after the big event with a t-shirt and flip flops for the cool girl look that will make heads turn...again! Sizes 0-18. Comes in several colors. Known for her dressy separates, and beadwork, Emily Shalant offers tops to match like this v-neck elbow sleeve "tee." Buy from Emily Shalant.

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Not your basic black. The halter style gives it a modern flair; the tiers of ostrich feathers on the skirt really amp it up. Also, the tie in back adds another dash of glam. The material is high quality, but it is a soft jersey, which means there's no structure to hold you in place. Shapewear is your friend. Sizes 0 to 14. Buy from Mac Duggal. 

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