Forget every horrifying cliche about about matronly mother of the bride jacket sets. Tadashi Shoji reinvents the combination so you can feel modern, and yet not have to fret about showing too much skin or getting cold. The key is the cropped jacket and strapless A-line gown with pockets. The navy lace over brown adds depth. Sizes 2 to 16. Buy from Tadashi Shoji. 

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Classic ballgown silhouette with modern comfort and sophistication from the metallic sheen to the pleated skirt, front slit and pockets. We love the balance of the off the shoulder short sleeve, creating coverage just where you want it. See it on real mom Sherri. Sizes 2 to 14. Also comes in plus sizes. Buy from Dillard's.

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This glamorous gown is giving us Nicole Kidman vibes—that statuesque column, the elegant drape of the asymmetrical neckline, the oversized bow to tie it all together. What makes this work for those of us who don't quite have a Nicole Kidman figure is the Sachin & Babi's signature double face stretch Mikado fabric. See it on real mom Wendy. Sizes 0 to 14. Buy from Sachin & Babi. 

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Draping at its finest. Liquidy, flattering lines gathered in the middle with that side ruffle and slit that manages to be sleek and cool not fussy. A gown that looks like it costs way more gold that it actually does. We're not telling! Sizes XS to XL. Buy from Neiman Marcus.

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Simple is always chic. You're sure to shine in this satin A-line cut. The structured bodice will keep everything in place. The high low hemline adds a flourish. And bonus points for pockets! Also comes in black, green, and rose. Note: reviews say it runs small, so size up! Sizes 0 to 24. Buy from Nordstrom.

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A silhouette designed to flatter your curves, from its pleating at the waist to the cascade of ruffles and side slit. And can we just say, in a season of one shoulder gowns, it's refreshing to be able to wear your regular bra with a special occasion dress! See it on real mom Sue. Sizes 0 to 18. Buy from Nordstrom.

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The ultimate in modern glamour, from the figure skimming silhouette to the one shoulder cape in flowy chiffon, with a bow on top. You won't need to try hard to turn heads. Sizes 2 to 16. Buy from Saks Fifth Avenue.

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From the sequined bodice and blouson sleeves to the wide waist tie, A-line pleated skirt and smoky hue, this is truly the ultimate in shirt gowns. Its level of relaxed sophistication  says: I woke up this glamorous. Sizes 0 to 16. Buy from Neiman Marcus.

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A fun twist on modern style. The one shoulder, A-line cut is as flattering as it is comfortable to wear. The cutout at the neckline is a cool surprise, and we love the navy/metallic shimmer. See it on real mother-of-the-bride Denise. Sizes 2 to 12. Buy from Nordstrom.

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How a cool girl does ruffles. The angled drape gives this classic A-line silhouette a cool edge, assuring you'll stand out in navy. Sizes 2 to 16. Buy from Neiman Marcus.

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If it's possible for a sequin gown to seem cozy, this is it. We love the peek of shoulder with the elbow length sleeve and the figure skimming sheath style. The sequins give it an all over shine without making it seem fussy. See it on real mom Heather. Sizes 4 to 16. Buy from Nordstrom.

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